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--Apple-Mail-172--653413034 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=US-ASCII; format=flowed; delsp=yes Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Please delete this personal email, it was ment to go to a friend not naturens. Begin forwarded message: > From: Lynn Ellis <lynn.ellis@ns.sympatico.ca> > Date: May 8, 2009 11:44:32 AM ADT > To: naturens@chebucto.ns.ca > Subject: [NatureNS] catching up > Reply-To: naturens@chebucto.ns.ca > > Hi Norma > > I am having a lazy day today, I worked hard yesterday, 5 surgeries > and a patient who came back at 5 bleeding. Anyway I came home to > just go out to a dental dinner afterward, home at 10:30. I think I > also have a sinus infection and put myself on some antibiotics. > I am hoping to go out to do the Spring Migration Count tomorrow, it > may just be pouring rain. There are two Egrets here at Albert Bridge > I may take a drive and have a look. > > I have been doing well. Ernie and I were exchanging a lot of emails > but he really doesn't say anything. I have tried and tried in the > past to engage him in some kind of discussion and but all I'd get > was that he has "issues". Very obtuse and vague. So I make a > decision last week to stop all of that. He still handles the book > keeping for the practice and does a good job. The corporate return > goes in by June 30 if not before. But I am not going to exchange any > non-book keeping communication with him any more. I have found that > it puts me on an emotional roller coaster and I don't need that. > Some of his behavior has been kind and caring and I begin to > interpret it as he's working on the relationship but then he does > things like clean out the house without telling me and then I got an > unexpected email from his lawyer at the middle of the day. This > stuff makes me angry and emotional. > > So I have informed him of my decision to step off the roller > coaster, get real with my life. I've read that people who leave like > Ernie did, planned it way ahead of time. So I think he was way ahead > of me emotionally the whole time. He had himself sorted out and > decisions made. > > I have spent way too much time on this "Ernie" issue and he's not > worth it. I was out with my dental colleagues last night and it felt > so good. Most are good friends and obviously long term friends. My > practice does really well. I intend to just chill for the next year > and just enjoy my life, not make any big decisions. I do feel like I > rattle around in the big big house. I wish there were more > alternatives here in CB, like a nice condo or rental where I could > be with my pets but there is just not. Hopefully this summer I will > take over the condo in Halifax and enjoy that. I may rent it for a > few years I don't know. > > I am really looking forward to Bermuda next week. The break should > do me good, I haven't been away yet this winter. Santa Fe is another > great adventure. They have over 300 art galleries and 30 museums, > and an out door opera house! Lots of culture and natural beauty. One > of my Rotary friends goes there every year and this year's trip may > over lap with my stay there. I will be on campus though doing my > workshop. > > I have looked at my year and scheduled off lots of time. I am hoping > we can connect. I have July 1st off of course but also the rest of > the week after that. And I have about a week and a half after I come > back from Santa Fe. If you don't come up to CB perhaps I will > venture down your way. > > I had a landscaper up today who will edge, clean out and mulch my > beds, tidy the property and get things looking great. I have to go > in today or tomorrow for groceries. Other than that it's kinda dull. > I have to pack of course as well and get myself organized. I have my > hat and sunblock ready, my shorts and a few books for vegging. > > Hope all is well with you, rest assured I am so much better and > really over my bad winter. Looking very much forward to a great > summer, and hey, we ARE GOING TO HAVE GREAT WEATHER!!!!!!!!!!! > > Thanks for all your support, you're great, like having a sister( one > who cares) > > Love ya lots > > lynn --Apple-Mail-172--653413034 Content-Type: text/html; charset=US-ASCII Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable <html><body style=3D"word-wrap: break-word; -webkit-nbsp-mode: space; = -webkit-line-break: after-white-space; ">Please delete this personal = email, it was ment to go to a friend not = naturens. <br><div><br><div>Begin forwarded message:</div><br = class=3D"Apple-interchange-newline"><blockquote type=3D"cite"><div><div = style=3D"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; = margin-left: 0px; "><font face=3D"Helvetica" size=3D"3" color=3D"#000000" = style=3D"font: 12.0px Helvetica; color: #000000"><b>From: = </b></font><font face=3D"Helvetica" size=3D"3" style=3D"font: 12.0px = Helvetica">Lynn Ellis <<a = href=3D"mailto:lynn.ellis@ns.sympatico.ca">lynn.ellis@ns.sympatico.ca</a>>= </font></div><div style=3D"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; = margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><font face=3D"Helvetica" = size=3D"3" color=3D"#000000" style=3D"font: 12.0px Helvetica; color: = #000000"><b>Date: </b></font><font face=3D"Helvetica" size=3D"3" = style=3D"font: 12.0px Helvetica">May 8, 2009 11:44:32 AM = ADT</font></div><div style=3D"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; = margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><font face=3D"Helvetica" = size=3D"3" color=3D"#000000" style=3D"font: 12.0px Helvetica; color: = #000000"><b>To: </b></font><font face=3D"Helvetica" size=3D"3" = style=3D"font: 12.0px Helvetica"><a = href=3D"mailto:naturens@chebucto.ns.ca">naturens@chebucto.ns.ca</a></font>= </div><div style=3D"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: = 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><font face=3D"Helvetica" size=3D"3" = color=3D"#000000" style=3D"font: 12.0px Helvetica; color: = #000000"><b>Subject: </b></font><font face=3D"Helvetica" size=3D"3" = style=3D"font: 12.0px Helvetica"><b>[NatureNS] catching = up</b></font></div><div style=3D"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; = margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><font face=3D"Helvetica" = size=3D"3" color=3D"#000000" style=3D"font: 12.0px Helvetica; color: = #000000"><b>Reply-To: </b></font><font face=3D"Helvetica" size=3D"3" = style=3D"font: 12.0px Helvetica"><a = href=3D"mailto:naturens@chebucto.ns.ca">naturens@chebucto.ns.ca</a></font>= </div><div style=3D"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: = 0px; margin-left: 0px; min-height: 14px; "><br></div> </div><div>Hi = Norma<br><br>I am having a lazy day today, I worked hard yesterday, 5 = surgeries and a patient who came back at 5 bleeding. Anyway I came home = to just go out to a dental dinner afterward, home at 10:30. I think I = also have a sinus infection and put myself on some antibiotics.<br>I am = hoping to go out to do the Spring Migration Count tomorrow, it may just = be pouring rain. There are two Egrets here at Albert Bridge I may take a = drive and have a look.<br><br>I have been doing well. Ernie and I were = exchanging a lot of emails but he really doesn't say anything. I have = tried and tried in the past to engage him in some kind of discussion and = but all I'd get was that he has "issues". Very obtuse and vague. = So I make a decision last week to stop all of that. He still handles the = book keeping for the practice and does a good job. The corporate return = goes in by June 30 if not before. But I am not going to exchange any = non-book keeping communication with him any more. I have found that it = puts me on an emotional roller coaster and I don't need that. Some of = his behavior has been kind and caring and I begin to interpret it as = he's working on the relationship but then he does things like clean out = the house without telling me and then I got an unexpected email from his = lawyer at the middle of the day. This stuff makes me angry and = emotional.<br><br>So I have informed him of my decision to step off the = roller coaster, get real with my life. I've read that people who leave = like Ernie did, planned it way ahead of time. So I think he was way = ahead of me emotionally the whole time. He had himself sorted out and = decisions made.<br><br>I have spent way too much time on this "Ernie" = issue and he's not worth it. I was out with my dental colleagues last = night and it felt so good. Most are good friends and obviously long term = friends. My practice does really well. I intend to just chill for the = next year and just enjoy my life, not make any big decisions. I do feel = like I rattle around in the big big house. I wish there were more = alternatives here in CB, like a nice condo or rental where I could be = with my pets but there is just not. Hopefully this summer I will take = over the condo in Halifax and enjoy that. I may rent it for a few years = I don't know.<br><br>I am really looking forward to Bermuda next week. = The break should do me good, I haven't been away yet this winter. Santa = Fe is another great adventure. They have over 300 art galleries and 30 = museums, and an out door opera house! Lots of culture and natural = beauty. One of my Rotary friends goes there every year and this year's = trip may over lap with my stay there. I will be on campus though doing = my workshop.<br><br>I have looked at my year and scheduled off lots of = time. I am hoping we can connect. I have July 1st off of course but also = the rest of the week after that. And I have about a week and a half = after I come back from Santa Fe. If you don't come up to CB perhaps I = will venture down your way.<br><br>I had a landscaper up today who will = edge, clean out and mulch my beds, tidy the property and get things = looking great. I have to go in today or tomorrow for groceries. Other = than that it's kinda dull. I have to pack of course as well and get = myself organized. I have my hat and sunblock ready, my shorts and a few = books for vegging.<br><br>Hope all is well with you, rest assured I am = so much better and really over my bad winter. Looking very much = forward to a great summer, and hey, we ARE GOING TO HAVE GREAT = WEATHER!!!!!!!!!!!<br><br> Thanks for all your support, you're great, = like having a sister( one who cares)<br><br>Love ya = lots<br><br>lynn<br></div></blockquote></div><br></body></html>= --Apple-Mail-172--653413034--
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